Politically, this has been the year of the culture war. Gay marriage has dominated the headlines on both sides of the Atlantic, while Barack Obama spent much of his re-election campaign portraying Republicans as medieval chauvinists who would consign all women under 35 to a chastity belt. But all of this scrapping over the minor details of sexual taste hides a bigger, far more serious story. There is a culture war going on out there, and there are real victims. On Christmas Day, the Washington Times published some sad facts about the changing face of the American family